Some say the marriage proved rock from the start. "They don't have a marriage," Sarah's brother Chuckie confided to a friend in Anchorage. "I don't know how they live together."
"It's never been a happy marriage," someone who's known Todd and Sarah since high school told me in 2010. Part of the problem was Sarah's lack of domestic skills. "She can't cook shit," the old friend said. "She couldn't do grilled cheese. She'd burn water."
Another sticking point was her lack of enthusiasm for child rearing, a trait she shared with her mother. "From the start ... Todd was the parent," one source says in the book.
"When he was home, he changed the diapers. He fed the kids. Sarah
never lifted a finger."